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・The Realities of a Shared House from the Perspective of a Live-In House Manager (2＋ Years）
・Experienced Residents Who Found Love: Navigating Relationships in a Shared House
・Practical Living Strategies for Married Couples in a Shared House
・Not Just Christmas! Hosting Large-scale Events in a Shared House
・Even When Apart, Our Bond Remains Unbroken
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Writer of this article

Not just younger people
At Social Residence Fussa, individuals in their 40s and above comprise 30% of the community. Many of them actively participate in organizing and attending events, assuming leadership roles within the house. The diverse age range fosters a broad spectrum of conversations, enriching the community experience.

It's Okay to Be Shy, So Was I
Within our community, some residents prefer not to engage in social activities cordially. There's absolutely no pressure to attend every party or gathering; it's perfectly fine to join in when you feel comfortable. We're here to support you, even at your first event, to help you make friends and feel at ease!

Before You Know It, It's Year Three
It might come as a surprise, but before you know it, one year has flown by, then another... and so on. At SR Fussa, our calendar is marked by seasonal events, allowing us to truly experience the passing of the seasons. When you're surrounded by close friends, time seems to fly by, leaving you with that familiar feeling of wishing summer vacation hadn't ended so soon.

Before We Knew It, We Were Together

From saying 'good morning' to 'see you later,' 'welcome back,' and 'goodnight,' our days begin and end just like those of a real family. Sharing meals at the same time, working together, taking breaks together—our rhythms of life synchronizing without us even noticing. And from there, it's natural for us to support each other, lend a helping hand, and sometimes, even fall in love.

Bring Your Sweetheart Along
At Social Residence Fussa, it's a common sight to see frequent visitors effortlessly blending into the community, and some even end up becoming full-fledged residents. It's a delight for us as administrators to witness people inviting their loved ones to join in the fun at their favorite house. Plus, with just an extra ¥20,000, living together becomes not just affordable but also a great way to save some money!

A Love Like Being Pushed Forward by Friends
In close-knit friend groups, it's not uncommon for one-sided crushes to develop, sometimes starting with playful teasing from those around. As feelings gradually become mutual, it can evoke a sense of nostalgia for the innocent, bittersweet romances of school days. Witnessing such moments as adults can be charming and heartwarming. Picture this: chatting at a party, only to realize you've been caught by others, leading to adorable blushes and shared smiles. Too cute for words!

Firmly Established Boundaries
In a shared house, since each room does not have private facilities like toilets, the communal facilities are used by multiple residents.
Many might relate to humorous instances of being gently reminded by housemates about leaving the toilet seat up or washing socks inside out. However, in shared living situations, the unwritten rule is to manage your own affairs, sparing others from unnecessary complaints. When renting individual rooms, concerns about a housemate's messy room or leaving laundry lying around tend to become less significant, don't they?

Becoming Spouses While Remaining Lovers
Phrases like 'living apart together' or 'weekend marriage' have emerged, highlighting the diverse array of partnerships and marriages in today's society. Shared houses epitomize this phenomenon! With separate rooms, there's a unique thrill in preparing for a date and eagerly anticipating the moment you'll reunite with your partner!

Trial Cohabitation Experience
With the monthly fee of 20,000 yen for an additional person, there's the option to try living together for a month—a perfect opportunity to test the waters before committing. It's akin to a three-month trial period before starting cohabitation, allowing you to acclimate to each other's routines and lifestyles.

A Wedding Inside the House
Since living in the shared house, I've witnessed numerous couples tie the knot or form partnerships. From casual celebratory meals with everyone to more formal ceremonies officiated by fellow residents acting as ministers, and even wedding photo shoots at the places where they first met—each celebration was incredibly beautiful. If you're considering such a special event for yourselves, I'd be delighted to help in any way I can!

A Pizza Party with Homegrown Veggies from the Terrace
At SR Fussa, we have a garden club where residents grow seasonal vegetables. We used freshly picked basil to top our pizzas and enjoyed herb-infused water generously shared by the garden club members. It was a bit of work, but making pizzas from scratch and hosting a party like this felt incredibly refreshing!

A Sauna Party with a Riverside Dip
It all started when a resident prepared a tent sauna in the summer of 2023. Since then, I've been hosting sauna parties at a riverside spot just a 3-minute walk away. During the warmer months, after sweating it out in the sauna, we can jump into the refreshing coolness of the river! It's a unique activity that allows us to fully enjoy the natural surroundings exclusive to SR Fussa—an experience you can't find in the city!

A Second Home
It's a sentiment often expressed when bidding farewell to residents from various countries around the world. They'll say, 'This is our home in Japan, so we'll definitely come back when we visit Japan again.' And of course, many Japanese residents also view it as their home away from home in Tokyo.

Traveling to Meet Friends from Around the World
Our house is like a hub for international students, with people from various nationalities coming together. It's common to hear invitations like, 'When you come to my country, you're welcome to stay!' And I've personally made plans to visit Sweden to reunite with friends from a previous shared house! I'm also excited to wholeheartedly host friends when they come to visit me!

Cross-Generational Friendships
It can be challenging to casually connect with people from different age groups. You might find yourself thinking, 'Older people are like bosses,' or 'Younger ones are too young for me
to relate to.' But guess what? In a shared house, age is just a number!

In this article, I have introduced the realities of shared house life from the perspective of a shared house manager!
If you had an interest in our shared house, we would be very happy if you could come to our events or take a look around the house!
Why not start a new life in a shared house?