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Seasonal Bliss/Blues

Within the last ten years, communication with family and friends who live far away has become much easier and much cheaper due to the advancements in technology.  It seems all an American expat needs is a passport, a credit card/cash, a Skype account and a Facebook account.  With technologies like these, one might even feel as though they aren’t even living overseas!  I can check American news, interact with my friends on Facebook and chat with my family on Skype.  It seems like the world has become one in a blink of an eye… that is until you walk outside.

Japan’s beautiful cherry blossom season is just now coming to a close and for Japanese people, and now myself, nothing represents Winter ending like those lovely flowers.  Now I know it’s Spring.  With an average lifespan of less than one week, these flowers represent an old cultural aesthetic, mono no aware or the transience of things.  In Japan, with the changing of seasons comes the disappearance of some things and the arrival of others (aka seasonal food – although it may not completely disappear it often becomes prohibitively expensive).  Cherry blossoms are no different.  Japanese people celebrate them with gusto, eating and drinking under the trees.  When they are in full bloom, people are overjoyed but it too is short lived.  For soon the leaves will fall and one can not help but consider ones’ own life span and how it too will pass, just like the flowers.

However, no matter how much technology advances this cultural aspect of Japan will not change.  So let’s all close our computers and go outside for a walk.

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Guest “home”

Like Sands Through The Hourglass, so are the… rotation of my housemates.

One of the first good traits you’ll hear about living in a guesthouse is that you are able to meet people from around the world and this IS true.  You get to know their culture, their food, their living style and maybe even a bit of their language.  But most of all, you get to know them, meaning these interesting and worldly people all become your friends.  You eat together, drink together, play together, learn together, cook together, study together, and generally do the things you would do with your family.  However, one of the less desirable traits of the guesthouse is that all these people are on a relatively short time limit — AKA their visas expire.  I’m no different but I have been fortunate enough to get a long visa with stable income while a majority of the people around me are students, people on their working holidays or in-between moves/jobs, so the guest house is really just a bit of a layover.

You’re probably thinking, “So, what’s your point?”  What I’m trying to say is that these people are the reason I’m not searching for a tiny 4 tatami mat studio to live in.  Basically all these people are what makes this guesthouse a home.  While I look forward to each and every new housemate, I miss the people that have left.   But I’m not going to get too sentimental on you; after all, I can just send them a facebook message.

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